It was the last week of March; it was the 27th; the Archbishop of York was in town;
and I was at home, celebrating my birthday… in the good company of wine
and song
and old friends, bearing beautiful gifts of fine paper
and cloth
and flowers of all sorts, on stems
and on cards, each carrying messages of loving kindness and good will.
It was the loveliest of days to be honouring the process of growing and ageing. I hope the Archbishop thought so, too, even though he wasn’t at my party at all, except in the very vaguest way, via my life lived within the framework of my historical and ancestral relationship with the Church of England. (You see, I wouldn’t be here in this 21st Century New Zealand, if my church-going forebears hadn’t decided to take assisted passages, in the 19th century, to a new life in the Church of England settlement of Christchurch.)
The Archbishop of York was here to help the Anglican Church prepare for a much more senior birthday than mine; the bicentennial of the beginnings of the Christian Gospel in Aotearoa, New Zealand.
And he was here to address a symposium entitled, ‘Poverty, Global and Local’.
Which made me think that, no matter how differently we celebrate a birthday, or, how disparate our ages, to grow up and grow old is a privilege; for state and church and person alike.
and for that privilege, and every strand of grey hair on my head, I must remember to be truly grateful and of a gladsome mind, always.
Update:
This post comes with a HUGE thank you to everyone who helped celebrate my birthday. I am looking forward to kicking up my heels and having a grand time with you all again in 2015. Put the date in your diaries now. 🙂
Footnote : This is an excellent article on the art of Mabel Royds http://www.addisonembroideryatthevicarage.co.uk/2013/11/29/mabel-royds-printmaker/
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Happy belated birthday my friend! What a joyful and uplifting post. Wishing you a healthy, happy year, and look forward to sharing another year with you my wonderful blogging friend!
Thanks Cindy. I am planning to make the most of every unbirthday between now and my next birthday. And all your lovely posts will help that process. 🙂
Happy belated birthday dear Gallivanta! ❤️
Best wishes for you❤️
Lovely presents,beautiful cards and flowers❤️
xxxxxx
Thank you Violet.
Belated Happy Birthday wishes! It sounds like you had a wonderful day.
Thank you Sheryl. It was fun. I am ready to do it all again next year. 😀
Happy Belated Birthday. What a wonderful day you celebrated with all the best things of life: wine, friends, lovely presents of beautiful books, cards expressing love. may you also celebrate many happy returns.
Thank you Mary. I am looking forward to many happy returns.
It must have been a lovely birthday.
It certainly was. 🙂
Happy birthday! I was visiting your country yesterday, in a way, as my friends came back from 3 weeks New Zeland trip and made a photo-video presentation for us. You have a fabulous country, I like your lakes and plants! And talking about old age, I LOVE your old trees (forgot the name) that were buried for thousand years and are now diged up to become fantastic art objects out of this old wood!
How wonderful to have an armchair tour of New Zealand. I think the wood may be Kauri. Thanks for the birthday wishes.
Yes, it is Kauri-color of this wood is so warm! Do you have any of these trees in your vicinity?
There is one, planted in 1920, in our Botanic Gardens but I think most of them grow in the North Island.
I am going to be with you kicking up my heels and celebrating everyday. Let us sing, dance, and climb a mountain (figurative, of course) this year.
“There are three hundred and sixty-four days when you might get un-birthday presents, and only one for birthday presents, you know.”
Lewis Carroll
Clanmother, thanks for my biggest smile of this new day. You took me straight back to this
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I love this one!!!! Happy UnBirthday, my dear friend!!!
And a very merry Unbirthday to you.
I am pleased you had a lovely birthday celebration with friends. I love the word gladsome, I had never heard before so thank you for introducing it to me. 😉
It feels good to say “My mind is gladsome”, doesn’t it?
Your birthday sure was lovely looking at all these presents and beautiful cards!
I was also given some other lovely floral skirts which will be great once spring is here again. So, yes, lots of beautiful gifts.
What a lovely way to celebrate your birthday. I especially admire your attitude to ageing.
🙂 My attitude is a work in progress. Some days there is more regress than progress. 😉
Lots of people I know seem to hate their birthdays as they grow older. It’s very refreshing to hear you be so happy and thankful to have, as you say, the privilege!
I have been known to be less than enthusiastic about birthdays but I’ve decided, if I am lucky enough to be growing older, I may as well make the most of it!
Sounds like a fabulous birthday! And I love the images in this post’s gallery… made me smile as soon as I saw them appear in my reader! 😀
Wonderful. The weather was so nice today, (at long last,) I was encouraged to think about taking photos again.
I loved seeing how much you are cared for and appreciated in your birthday wishes…beautiful!
Thank you Heather. There were lots of emails and phone calls and skype calls as well, so I felt very special. Plus a video skype from a former beau (from my teens) and his dear mother which was really an awww moment.
What a fabulous birthday. I’m intrigued by the gardening books and found the youtube clip really uplifting: heavenly singing, thank you.
The gardening books are not new publications but it’s lovely to look back and see how gardens were described or written about in previous decades. Garden writers often have a good sense of fun, too. Glad you enjoyed the youtube clip. There is so much beautiful music available, I often have trouble deciding which piece/version to use.
Pure loveliness!!!
Thank you lovely Cindy. 🙂
Okay it’s in my agenda for 2015!!
Excellent! Looking forward to your company.
You had a lovely birthday. I like how you viewed these little beautiful things around you as celebration of the day. Even Jack was included (how did you make him sings and what songs may I ask ?) 🙂
Yes, YC, a lot of little things made up the nice day. Jack will start singing if I sing anything in the highest note possible (for me). When my daughter was at home he loved to join her when she was singing classical or opera songs. He particularly liked Wagner.
Lovely birthday…beautiful flowers (LOVE the orchid!) and real cards! Bumble says hi to Jack. I’m sure they would be friends 🙂
I am sure Bumble and Jack would have a great time together. 🙂 Bumble, being older, would be able to offer lots of wisdom.
I’m glad to know your birthday was a fine celebration. I’m sure the Bishop would have loved to join you if he had been able to. The 200th birthday of the Gospel in Aotearoa will surely be another fine celebration, especially in the Bay of Islands on Christmas Day. Here’s a nice link to the story of the Christmas Day service in 1814: http://www.gospel2014.org/marsden/
That’s a great link. I particularly enjoyed this section http://www.gospel2014.org/history/ and this comment. “The engagement of Ruatara and Marsden, iwi and tauiwi, Māori and missionaries, inaugurated the missionary starting point at Rangihoua in December 1814. This is a foundational event in New Zealand’s history. It ranks alongside the encounters between Māori and Abel Tasman in 1642, Māori and James Cook in 1769, and the signing of the Treaty between Māori and the British Crown at Waitangi in February 1840.”
Glad you have a wonderful birthday celebration. 🙂
Thank you Su Leslie. I often have mixed feelings about birthday celebrations, so this time I was determined to be positive.
So do I; I’ve tried everything from leaving the country to staying in bed to trying to “enjoy” — I’m still conflicted, so I’m very glad you enjoyed yours. Cheers, Su.
😀 Cheers!
What a very lovely post!
Happy birthday. Happy birth week. And at our young ages, we should be celebrating the whole month…..
Definitely, or perhaps as we grow, our birthdays should too. So at 30 years, we may celebrate for a month, at 40, for 40 days and nights, etc . Gosh, why hasn’t commerce grasped this idea yet? Fortunes could be made out of the birthday business.
Haha….
These are all lovely pictures–especially the yellow orchid. It truly is a privilege to live long enough to get silver hair. Happy Birthday!
Blessings ~ Wendy
Thank you Wendy. I love my silver/gray hair 🙂 I love the orchid too. I haven’t had an orchid before. This one is gorgeous. I hope I can keep it alive. Indoor plants and I have a vexed relationship.
“To grow up and grow old is a privilege…” and so it is to understand that it is a privilege. Not to be taken for granted. I know you would never do that, but I know of people who do.
I hope to be able to read a bit more when May is over. This time of the year is the worst…I miss the silent hours late at night when I have my blogging friends to myself. Now I have a hard time trying to cope with my tests and correcting them and thinking of fair grades…I don’t want to complain, it’s just that I feel I want to excuse my absense…
How quickly the year passes. I remember how busy you were this time last year and then suddenly it was time to say farewell to another group of students. I also love my silent time at night. Yours will come again. 🙂
Oh, yes it will. The time. As you say – a year has disappeared, and where did it go? This year I have no students taking their exams. I’ve only had first and second year students. But, next spring I will say farewell to my own class (I’m a mentor) and that will be tough.
Ah, it’s good you have those changes in responsibilities, so that every year can be a little different.
True. One of the advantages with being a teacher – nothing is ever the same as yesterday!
🙂
Such a delight. Happy ‘Belated’ birthday.
Thank you 🙂
Beautiful photos, and a view into another life, another land.
Glad you could enjoy it with me.
an abundance of flowers 🙂 jack is adorable!!!
And he does sing so well. 🙂
and he’s so dapper! 🙂
Definitely. He is a very well groomed gentleman. Even waits for me to go through the door first.
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zwergschnauer are such delicate little individuals. ❤
Delicate indeed. Such refined sensibilities until he takes it into his head that he can’t possibly tolerate the passerby, outside the fence, a second longer, and launches into the most horrendous yapping.
😀
too true! perry for instance doesn’t like strangers. if they ask mum one question, he is rather unnerved, but beware if they’re stupid enough to ask a second one! my ears start to bleed…
Oh, he speaks like a true schnauzer. 😀
yeah, they’re not as evil and mischievous as for example fox terriers, but obviously just as ants-in-the-pants-ish 😀
Indeed.
What a fantastic way to celebrate “you!” Looks like you had the best of times and all in style, looking forward to the 2015 celebration!
And, next year, if I plan a little better, I might be able to show you a birthday cake, overloaded with candles. 🙂 I didn’t make a cake this year!
It looks as though you had a lovely, colourful birthday – the “new robes” look especially dazzling 🙂 This reminds me of the post you often see on Facebook, about remembering to be grateful to grow older as it is a privilege denied to many.
Ah, thanks for the reminder. I have found the quote “Don’t regret growing older. It is a privilege denied to many.” by Unknown.
That’s the one 🙂
So glad you had a beautiful birthday! Love all your wonderful pictures and celebration news! Listening to your song right now- Lovely…..
It’s one of my favourite hymns.
For some reason I never seem to hear or read the word gladsome, but it’s a good word, and a gladsome one for advancing birthdays. Happy yours.
Thank you. Some of the ‘some’ words seem to have been replaced by the ubiquitous ‘awesome’.
With the effect that awesome has come to mean ‘good, nice, okay’ or to have practically no meaning at all. Two other common adjectives that have been similarly devalued are incredible and its more-native-English counterpart unbelievable.
I know…it’s literally unbelievable and totally incredible what has happened. Hope you had an awesome nature walk. (Oh dear, I shouldn’t be naughty, but I am sure I debase the English language more often than I would care to admit. 😦 )
Well Happy Belated Birthday. What a beautiful day you had and such thoughtful friends. Nothing more precious than that my friend. Cheers to you☺
Thank you Laurie. You are so right.
looks like a perfect birthday celebration Gallivanta, with flowers and song and wine … and that sense of connection to the wider community and its history … wishing you many more!
Thank you, dadirri7. It has taken a long time to find that sense of connection. I am still working on it.